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How to Ask Friends to Pay You Back (Without Being Awkward)
The ultimate guide to navigating the innovative etiquette of IOUs. How to send reminders without sounding cheap.
The "Direct but Casual" Approach
"Hey! Just doing my budget for the month. Could you send over that $40 for dinner when you get a chance?"
Keep it light, but be clear about the amount and the timeline.
Let the Link do the Talking
Sharing a SplitExpenses link is passive. You aren't asking for money; you're just "sharing the bill update". It shifts the focus from you to the math.
Conclusion
The best method is the one everyone agrees on. Communication is key.